In moments of introspection, prompted by a guiding inner voice, I find myself compelled to share a message of encouragement. Though born from my own experiences, this message may resonate with those who find themselves at a crossroads, teetering on the edge of perseverance or capitulation.

The journey of coaching transcends the mere impartation of skills and techniques. It is a vocation that demands a deep understanding of human nature and a commitment to nurturing potential. My dual role as an educator and coach over the last quarter-century has imbued me with invaluable insights.

I’ve transitioned from merely being a figure of authority to embracing the role of a mentor who weaves personal experiences into the fabric of learning. This approach, characterized by storytelling, enriches the coaching experience, making lessons more relatable and impactful.

Challenges are an inevitable part of life and coaching. How we respond to disappointments, unexpected hurdles, and the myriad of ups and downs is a powerful lesson to those we guide. Our reactions teach resilience, adaptability, and the grace to face life’s trials.

Patience can be tested, especially by those who seem most resistant to guidance. Yet, it’s important to remember the long-term impact of our efforts. The seeds of accountability we plant today may only bear fruit in the future, but their value is immeasurable.

Focus on constructive relationships to navigate the complexities of coaching dynamics. Rather than being swayed by negativity, seek mentors and colleagues who uplift and support your growth. Continuous learning and self-improvement are the hallmarks of a great coach.

During my collegiate years, a poem taped to the wall by my floor mattress offered solace and motivation. Its verses spoke of kindness, integrity, and perseverance in adversity. This poem, often associated with Mother Teresa but originally penned by Kent M. Keith as “The Paradoxical Commandments,” emphasizes the importance of doing good, regardless of the response it elicits from others.

In essence, the true measure of our actions lies not in external validation but in the integrity and sincerity of our intentions. This timeless wisdom serves as a beacon for coaches, reminding us of the profound impact we can have simply by being our best selves and encouraging others to do the same.

It’s important to note that while the poem is commonly attributed to Mother Teresa, its true author is Kent M. Keith. Despite this, the poem’s message aligns with both figures’ ethos of kindness and perseverance.